Reigniting the Spark in Your Marriage
It’s easy to get into a routine and with work, the kids and everything else, the person we once had nothing but time for, becomes second to other commitments. As time passes, the flame can die out in any relationship. The good news is, it can also be reignited with some effort. Here, we’ve got some great tips for spicing up your marriage. From taking your partner on a weekend away at one of the luxury apartments Sydney has to offer, to leaving love notes for him/her to find, we’ve got the tips that will make them fall in love with you all over again.
Stop the arguments
Ever heard the expression ‘happy wife, happy life?’ We aren’t saying just agree with everything but if you find that the two of you are fighting over things that are just so petty, simply try to bite your tongue every time you feel like lashing out. If it’s not worth the bother, why argue over it? Learn to pick your battles.
Let them know you care
It’s always the little things that can really make a difference. Here, we’ve listed some cute ideas for letting your partner know you are thinking of them:
- If you are leaving early for work, leave a few post-it notes around the house for them to find. Each should have something about them you adore. Eg. A post-it note on the bathroom mirror saying, ‘Morning sexy! I’m so lucky to be with you.’
- Buy their favourite chocolate bar and wrap it in a note saying, ‘hope you enjoy this chocolate bar – but nothing’s as sweet as you.’ Slip it in their handbag or briefcase.
- Get home before them and prepare their favourite meal. Have candles lit, music playing and dress to impress for a romantic night in.
Re-do your wedding vows
A beautiful, romantic way to reignite the flame between you and your partner is to re-do your vows in an intimate ceremony with just you, them and a celebrant. Surprise them by writing your own vows and purchasing a beautiful piece of jewellery to mark the occasion.
Take your partner on a romantic escape
Sometimes all you need is some time away from it all, just the two of you. Reconnect and rejuvenate together. If you book one of the top serviced apartments Sydney has to offer holiday goers, you can spend the weekend relaxing, seeing the sites and cooking him/her their favourite meals too. Bring plenty of champagne and treats in case you don’t feel like leaving the apartment once you arrive.
It’s easy for couples to start living like flatmates if they aren’t careful. But with some effort and a little bit of thought you and your partner will be able to reignite the flame in your marriage and fall in love with each other all over again.